Glossary
The words, decoded
Every term you'll run into, from aftercare to vixen.
A
- Aftercare
- Time and attention partners give each other after an intense scene or experience, to reconnect and check in.
B
- Bull
- The man a hotwife or cuckold's partner plays with, especially a regular partner.Read the guide
C
- Chastity
- Play where one partner controls when the other can have sexual release, with or without a device.Read the guide
- Compersion
- Joy at your partner's happiness with someone else.Read the guide
- Cuckold
- A man aroused by his partner being with someone else, often with an element of surrender or humiliation.Read the guide
- Cuckquean
- A woman aroused by her partner being with someone else.Read the guide
E
- Ethical non-monogamy
- Any relationship style where partners openly agree to romantic or sexual connections with others.
F
- FLR
- Female-led relationship: a relationship where both partners agree she has the final say.Read the guide
H
- Hard limit
- Something that's off the table, no matter what.
- Hotwife
- A woman who has sex with others with her partner's enthusiastic blessing.Read the guide
K
- Keyholder
- The partner who controls the key, literally or figuratively, in chastity play.Read the guide
R
- Reclaiming
- When a stag or partner reconnects sexually with a hotwife after her date.Read the guide
S
- Safe word
- A pre-agreed word that stops everything immediately, no questions asked.
- Soft limit
- Something you're hesitant about but might explore carefully.
- Stag
- A proud partner who enjoys his vixen's adventures, without submission or humiliation.Read the guide
T
- Tease and denial
- Building arousal while delaying or withholding release.Read the guide
V
- Vanilla
- Conventional sex or relationships without kink. Not an insult.
- Vixen
- A hotwife in a stag and vixen dynamic.Read the guide